Two…
Things tend to come in pairs
Shoes
Ears
Eyes
Hands
Feet
A friendship… Yeah let’s roll with that one for now.
A two way street, a little give and take. If one person is being shit at keeping in contact then why is it only that persons responsibility? Ever thought maybe you haven’t heard cause something happened? They are a lil busy right now? They haven’t go internet? They are ill? Whatever, something.
Why do you then cut that person off cause they haven’t been in touch for a few days… Well let me ask you this.. Why haven’t you reached out to ask are you okay?
Cause it’s always down to me? And when we voice chat on Skype it’s usually always you that is moaning about the hubby? Barely get a word in edge ways and when I do it’s turned back to you?
Well maybe I am tired of hearing it now… Pop quiz… If something irritates you about your hubby maybe you need to do something about it, instead of ranting to a bi polar sponge that soaks up negativity.
You won’t see this, I know and I am at peace with that. I just needed to let this out, cause when I noticed the other day your Skype status as busy and with the note against your name stating that you didn’t know why you bothered… I decided not to take the bait and instead I waited.
And guess what?…
YOU DIDN’T MESSAGE ME EITHER!
Just as I expected. I so love when you don’t disappoint. Then I saw you had signed out completely. Okay so I give you the benefit of the doubt. You may have connection issues. But then wait… Skype isn’t the only way to connect to me if you really wanted to…
There is e-mail, hangouts, buzzen… am I missing anything?
So I irritiate. It’s a two way street, you walk one way, I walk another… If we pass then we pass if we don’t then someone should meet halfway, and when I say someone I don’t always mean me… So when you want to get in touch I’ll be here, but when / if you do, I don’t want to hear a lecture as to why I am the one to blame.
I would never have thought this was aimed at me because I don’t do voice chat and I don’t bitch about my hubby, I plain out tell you he needs stabbed with a rusty railroad spike. 😉
Friendship is a two way street. But sometimes it goes a little one way and it sucks but if you value this person’s friendship…send an email. Don’t let it eat you up this way. It’s not fair to have to be the one reaching out but you know I am always here for you to stab me. 😉
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